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  • REMINDERS 

    November 5, 2025 Joey and Carla Link I remember a time when I reminded one of my girls once again to get her chores done and her response was, “I know, I know.” I thought if she already knew, why wasn’t it done? In the last 24 hours how many times have you heard your…

  • The Parenting Notebook

    Kim O’Brien October 29, 2025 Have you heard the phrase, “Train your kids in times of non-conflict?” First, you should think about what training entails. As Joey & Carla have so often said, it has 3 parts: 1.     Give them information 2.     Show them how you expect them to use that information 3.     Correct them when they don’t and praise…

  • Positive Parenting, Part 2

    Joey and Carla Link October 22, 2025 Last week we talked about being positive when you parent your children. Yelling, being harsh and angry or critical of them is being negative in your parenting and your children don’t need that. Being calm when you talk to your kids is one way you can be positive…

  • Positive Parenting

    Joey and Carla Link October 15, 2025 You ask one of your kids to do a chore he knows he is supposed to do. He ignores you. Forget trying to be polite. This time you tell him to do it in a firm voice. He tells you he will do it in an annoyed tone.…

  • Right Away, All the Way, With a Happy Heart

    Joey and Carla Link October 8, 2025 Young children need more than than teaching, which is giving them information, like why obeying those in authority is a wise thing to do even if they don’t want to, they need to be trained how to use that information too. When you are first teaching/training your kids about a…

  • Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong

    Joey and Carla Link October 1, 2025 No parent wants to believe they have a rebellious child. We may say our friends and neighbors have a rebellious child but rarely do we speak to parents who say “I have a rebellious child!” Actually, few people today use the word “rebellious”. It is more common to say…

  • Who’s in Charge of Your Family?

    Joey and Carla Link September 17, 2025 “Children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right.” Ephesians 6:1 What child raised in a Christian home hasn’t heard this verse multiple times throughout their lives? Ours certainly did. When you are talking about authority, obedience becomes part of the conversation because you can’t have…

  • My Mom Gave Me the “Mom’s Notes” And I Am SO Glad She Did!

    Kari Walters September 10, 2025 The parenting resource Growing Kids God’s Way was a part of  both my husband, Caleb’s and my upbringing, though we only knew it from the child’s point of view. After having our firstborn, we knew we needed to look into it more seriously for ourselves.  While visiting my mom in Minnesota, she handed…

  • It Always Comes Back to Being Consistent

    Joey & Carla Link August 27, 2025 Your kids are being responsible with the stuff they have to get done and you are quite pleased your home is peaceful at last. Your kids, will start to back off just a little, and if you don’t do anything to stop them, they back off more and…

  • Take a Break So You’re Not Running on Empty

    Kristi Rolin July 30, 2025 There were a number of years when our kids were young that I didn’t take time for myself.  I just kept pouring into the kids, homeschooling, keeping up with the house, errands, running the kids to their activities, and then dropping into bed exhausted at night.  I didn’t realize how important it…