Author: Joey & Carla Link

  • Peer Pressure Warning Signs

    Joey and Carla Link November 6, 2024 Peer pressure. Is your first thought negative? Ours usually is. There is such a thing as positive peer pressure. Warning signs your kids (10 yrs and up) are being drawn into negative peer pressure. Information in this blog was taken from the Mom’s Notes presentations “Understanding Peer Pressure, Part 1”, “Understanding Peer Pressure,…

  • How Do You Protect Your Kids as They Grow? 

    Joey and Carla Link October 30, 2024 We no longer live in a world we can trust. Oh, how we wish that were different, but it’s not. The best way to keep a protective arm around your kids with society’s morals is to keep your family united and strong. However, as kids grow, they are…

  • What’s the Difference Between Praising Your Kids or Encouraging Them?

    Joey and Carla Link October 23, 2024 “Correction does much, but encouragement does more. Encouragement after censure is as the sun after a shower.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Webster’s Dictionary defines ‘encourage’ as “to inspire with courage, to hearten, cheer on or up.”  When our children felt that there was nothing they could do right (don’t…

  • Kids at Work

    Joey and Carla Link October 16, 2024 When our kids did their chores, as their parent, it was easy for us to grade their effort in our mind. We would ask them to give themselves a grade when they were finished, and most of the time they agreed with what we mentally gave them. Do…

  • Being Led by Feelings

    Joey and Carla Link October 9, 2024 Facts, feeling and assumptions. Those with the Melancholy as their primary temperament get these confused all the time. Facts and feelings seem pretty straightforward, but let’s define them anyway.  A “fact” is something that is “proven to be true”. When you say to your child, “You left your…

  • When Your Child Lies

    Joey and Carla Link October 2, 2024 There isn’t much that makes a parent as upset with their kids than when they catch them lying about something. Lying means you are trying to cover something up, usually to stay out of trouble. Believe it or not, there are some kids who are prone to lying…

  • Strong-Willed Kids and Authority

    Joey and Carla Link September 25, 2024 One of your kids (hopefully only one!) won’t get it together and keep it together. Every time you instruct him/her to do something, you have a fight on your hands. You are constantly correcting him/her throughout the day, every day with no end in sight.  In Ephesians 6:1,…

  • Keeping Your Kids Between You

    Joey and Carla Link September 18, 2024 I recently attended a rodeo and saw an event that reminded me of parenting. Two cowboys riding their horses were in place beside a chute that had a young steer in it. When the chute opened, the two cowboys’ raced along across the arena, trying to keep the…

  • Encourage Your Kids’ “Character Bent”

    Joey and Carla Link September 11, 2024 “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6  Each one of our children have a “bent”, a way to go that God has given them, to be who He wants them to be,…

  • If I Ran the Zoo, Would I Know What to Do? Pt.4  

    Non-Negotiables of Parenting Teaching Your Kids to Respect Others Joey and Carla Link September 4, 2024 We have been talking about the non-negotiables of parenting, meaning what we think every parent should train their kids to do, without question. We spent two blogs on obedience. Today we are talking about another non-negotiable and that is…