Author: Joey & Carla Link
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The Parenting Notebook
Kim O’Brien October 29, 2025 Have you heard the phrase, “Train your kids in times of non-conflict?” First, you should think about what training entails. As Joey & Carla have so often said, it has 3 parts: 1. Give them information 2. Show them how you expect them to use that information 3. Correct them when they don’t and praise…
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Positive Parenting, Part 2
Joey and Carla Link October 22, 2025 Last week we talked about being positive when you parent your children. Yelling, being harsh and angry or critical of them is being negative in your parenting and your children don’t need that. Being calm when you talk to your kids is one way you can be positive…
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Positive Parenting
Joey and Carla Link October 15, 2025 You ask one of your kids to do a chore he knows he is supposed to do. He ignores you. Forget trying to be polite. This time you tell him to do it in a firm voice. He tells you he will do it in an annoyed tone.…
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Right Away, All the Way, With a Happy Heart
Joey and Carla Link October 8, 2025 Young children need more than than teaching, which is giving them information, like why obeying those in authority is a wise thing to do even if they don’t want to, they need to be trained how to use that information too. When you are first teaching/training your kids about a…
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Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong
Joey and Carla Link October 1, 2025 No parent wants to believe they have a rebellious child. We may say our friends and neighbors have a rebellious child but rarely do we speak to parents who say “I have a rebellious child!” Actually, few people today use the word “rebellious”. It is more common to say…
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What’s Obedience?
Joey and Carla Link September 24, 2025 “Children obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.” Colossians 3:20 Obedience, is doing what someone in authority over you tells you to do without arguing or complaining. Another way to think of obedience is “forced compliance”. Sounds harsh, doesn’t it? But God knew when He…
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Who’s in Charge of Your Family?
Joey and Carla Link September 17, 2025 “Children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right.” Ephesians 6:1 What child raised in a Christian home hasn’t heard this verse multiple times throughout their lives? Ours certainly did. When you are talking about authority, obedience becomes part of the conversation because you can’t have…
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My Mom Gave Me the “Mom’s Notes” And I Am SO Glad She Did!
Kari Walters September 10, 2025 The parenting resource Growing Kids God’s Way was a part of both my husband, Caleb’s and my upbringing, though we only knew it from the child’s point of view. After having our firstborn, we knew we needed to look into it more seriously for ourselves. While visiting my mom in Minnesota, she handed…
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What Should You Throw Out of Your Parenting Toolbox?
Joey & Carla Link September 3, 2025 In last week’s blog we talked about what it looks like to consistently train your kids. When there isn’t a plan in place to help us be consistent in the training (both pro-active and re-active) of our kids, we all fall back on two things. Every parent has…
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It Always Comes Back to Being Consistent
Joey & Carla Link August 27, 2025 Your kids are being responsible with the stuff they have to get done and you are quite pleased your home is peaceful at last. Your kids, will start to back off just a little, and if you don’t do anything to stop them, they back off more and…